{"id":107853,"date":"2019-08-02T14:33:24","date_gmt":"2019-08-02T19:33:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/?p=107853"},"modified":"2019-08-26T10:30:33","modified_gmt":"2019-08-26T15:30:33","slug":"how-a-fashionista-became-a-sex-therapist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/for-our-wellness\/how-a-fashionista-became-a-sex-therapist\/","title":{"rendered":"How a fashionista became a sex therapist"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"clearfix\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Rossana Sida\u2019s journey from Central California\u2019s agricultural heartland to fashion capitals like San Francisco and New York City and then to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/\">The Chicago School of Professional Psychology<\/a> was long and complex. But\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">along the way she says it<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0taught her the value of pursuing her dream and\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">the importance of\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">trusting her instincts.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Rossana,\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">says she grew up obsessed with fashion magazines \u2013 inspired by the beauty and creativity demo<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">nstrated on their glossy pages. \u201cI loved Vogue magazine,\u201d she says. \u201cIt was art. But <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">it also all felt out of reach \u2013 like a dream.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Nevertheless, Rossana pursued that dream. She studied apparel design and fashion merchandising at Sa<\/span><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-107858 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/IMG_20190607_170536-300x240.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"378\" height=\"302\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/IMG_20190607_170536-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/IMG_20190607_170536-770x616.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/IMG_20190607_170536-1024x819.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/IMG_20190607_170536-500x400.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/IMG_20190607_170536-293x234.jpg 293w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/IMG_20190607_170536-1400x1120.jpg 1400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 378px) 100vw, 378px\" \/><span data-contrast=\"auto\">n Francisco State while working full time at a Nordstrom<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u2019<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">s Department Store. Her hard work paid off with new opportunities that eventually took her to Japan and then New York to manage a huge fashion retail operation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">But career and financial success didn\u2019t bring her the personal satisfaction \u2013<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0the sense of purpose \u2013 that she longed for.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u201c<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">I did not know what I wanted to do, only that I wanted my work to be meaningful.\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">So, I quit my job, moved back to Los Angeles and lived on my best friend<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u2019<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">s couch for three months until I figured it out.<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u201d<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Those were dark days for Rossana. <\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">She questioned her decision and feared she had made a mistake. Why wasn\u2019t a good-paying job enough?\u00a0 Was pursuing her passion \u2013 even\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">without knowing exactly what it was<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0\u2013 worth this\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">risk?<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">During this\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">time<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0she started volunteering at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.csun.edu\/wellbeing\/strength-united\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Strength United<\/a>, an organization that provided crisis counseling for survivors of sexual assault. She worked directly with victims\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">&#8211;\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">supporting them while they were interviewed by police and examined by\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">medical staff<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">. This wasn\u2019t a job for everyone. It was intense, emotional and sometimes traumatic \u2013 and Rossana loved it.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> \u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u201c<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">I knew I wanted to be there. I wanted to know more and help more. From that<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0moment<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0I knew I wanted to go into sex therapy.<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u201d<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Rossana says she had always been intrigued with the topic of sex. Her curiosity \u2013 even as a young girl \u2013 lead to many questions which she says her mother tried to provide without ever trying to make her feel guilty. It\u2019s the kind of environment she says she now provides for her clients \u2013 a safe place to explore important questions about a topic that makes most people\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">uncomfortable and some damaged.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Rossana just graduated from The Chicago School\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">with a Psy.D. in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/los-angeles\/programs\/m-a-in-marriage-couples-and-family-therapy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Marriage and Family Therapy<\/a><\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">. She was chosen to be the Student Speaker for her class \u2013 an honor\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">and an opportunity for her to express her special brand of honesty.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u201cI am an imposter,\u201d she <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ETjmgy0vfkk&amp;feature=youtu.be\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">told her fellow grads<\/a> as she recounted her first day of class. \u201cWhat made me feel I could succeed in this field?\u201d Rossana then went on to share her journey, her discoveries and her message:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u201cIf you could connect that authentic you, the \u2018you\u2019 that isn\u2019t trying to fit in a mold or taking up space, the \u2018you\u2019 that is intentional about creating your own joy, then you will always be able to reignite that passion.<\/span> <span data-contrast=\"auto\">You are not an imposter.\u00a0 You belong here. You, just as you are, is enough.\u201d<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>_____________________________________________________________________________________________<\/p>\n<p><strong>Learn more about The Chicago School of Professional Psychology\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you would like to learn more about our academic programs, fill out the form below to request more information or you can apply today through our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/apply\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">application portal<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/section>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rossana Sida\u2019s journey from Central California\u2019s agricultural heartland to fashion capitals like San Francisco and New York City and then to The Chicago School of Professional Psychology was long and complex.  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