{"id":109987,"date":"2020-05-04T15:58:35","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T20:58:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/?p=109987"},"modified":"2020-05-04T16:03:44","modified_gmt":"2020-05-04T21:03:44","slug":"grieving-in-the-time-of-covid19","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/for-our-wellness\/grieving-in-the-time-of-covid19\/","title":{"rendered":"Grieving in the Time of COVID19"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"clearfix\"><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-109992 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-100x67.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-770x513.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-536x357.jpg 536w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-936x624.jpg 936w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-1321x880.jpg 1321w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-459x306.jpg 459w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-little-girl_zJ4Yq8DO-1566x1044.jpg 1566w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As we continue to fight through what seems like an uphill battle, many of us are still adjusting to the many forms of loss caused by COVID-19. With changes being made daily, people all around the world are now being forced to grieve the loss of normalcy. \u201cWhile the death of a loved one or friend due to the virus is significant and traumatic,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/faculty-finder\/byname\/michael_kocet\/\">Dr. Michael Kocet<\/a>, Department Chair, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/learn\/educational-school-psychology\/?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=TCSPP%20%7c%20Chicago%20%7c%20Ph.d.%20in%20Counselor%20Education%20and%25Supervision&amp;src=g.search&amp;utm_campus=102&amp;_vsrefdom=tcspp_google&amp;gclid=EAIaIQobChMI_8LH4rv86AIVC1YMCh1d2AeqEAAYASAAEgLHl_D_BwE\">Counselor Education<\/a>. \u201cThere are other types of losses and grief that people can experience: loss of control, loss of security and safety, job loss, grief due to the inability to participate in rituals like commencement and graduation ceremonies \u2026weddings postponed.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_11285\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-11285\" style=\"width: 278px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-11285\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Michael-Kocet-1-278x300.jpg\" alt=\"Michael M. Kocet, Ph.D picture\" width=\"278\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Michael-Kocet-1-278x300.jpg 278w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Michael-Kocet-1-770x831.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Michael-Kocet-1-948x1024.jpg 948w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Michael-Kocet-1-500x540.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Michael-Kocet-1-293x316.jpg 293w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Michael-Kocet-1.jpg 1042w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 278px) 100vw, 278px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-11285\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Department Chair Michael M. Kocet, Ph.D.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>When someone loses a loved one to the virus, they can experience what Dr. Kocet defines as a complicated mourning. Since we are still practicing social distancing, the grieving process is more difficult during this time.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn the case of COVID19, relatives and friends may not be able to gather at a funeral home or attend a memorial service.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In highly populated cities, there has been an increased amount of deaths caused by the coronavirus, yet the funerals, burials, and traditional sense of comfort that are usually received during a time of grief have been taken away for the immediate future. Although social distancing is a useful solution for slowing the spread of the virus, it has also resulted in many people not being able to receive closure from losses that are occurring right now. For this reason, we now have to find new ways to say goodbye to the people and things we care about.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-110003 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"329\" height=\"219\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-100x67.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-770x513.jpg 770w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-1536x1022.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-2048x1363.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-536x357.jpg 536w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-936x623.jpg 936w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-1321x880.jpg 1321w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-459x306.jpg 459w, https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/graphicstock-unrecognizable-senior-man-in-gray-sweater-at-home-in-his-living-room-praying-hands-clasped-together-eyes-closed_ruEm6dUzW-1566x1042.jpg 1566w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 329px) 100vw, 329px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Our ability to support each other in a time of need is not the same as before, yet this time of uncertainty has also shown us how resilient we can be. There are several ways people are adjusting to the sudden changes. Many are creating new rituals to honor their grief and loss, while others are choosing to share memories and stories about their loved ones on social media. In a nod to technology, some people are using video chat to allow grievers to virtually attend funerals. Although untraditional, these modern ways of grieving do provide an opportunity to start healing parts of their lives that they won\u2019t get back.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Further reading:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/news\/apa\/2020\/04\/grief-covid-19\">American Psychology Association<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.samhsa.gov\/find-help\/national-helpline\">SAMHSA<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Learn more about The Chicago School<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you would like to learn more about programs at The Chicago School, fill out the form below to request more information. You can also apply today through our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/apply\/\">application portal.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/section>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As we continue to fight through what seems like an uphill battle, many of us are still adjusting to the many forms of loss caused by COVID-19. With changes being made daily, people all around the world are now being forced to grieve the loss of normalcy. \u201cWhile the death of a loved one or friend due to the virus is significant and traumatic,\u201d says Dr. Michael Kocet, Department Chair, Counselor Education. \u201cThere are other types of losses and grief [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":48,"featured_media":109992,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[704],"tags":[1143,822,223],"coauthors":[1073],"class_list":["post-109987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-for-our-wellness","tag-covid-19","tag-grief","tag-mental-health"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Grieving in the Time of COVID19 - Insight Digital Magazine<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"With changes being made daily, people all around the world are now being forced to grieve the loss of normalcy. \u201cWhile the death of a loved one or friend..\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thechicagoschool.edu\/insight\/for-our-wellness\/grieving-in-the-time-of-covid19\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Grieving in the Time of COVID19 - 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